Odes 2.3

Some advice for Dellius

by Horace

In this poem, Horace pitches the conventional theme of “carpe diem” very much in terms of Epicurean philosophy – living the good life means maintaining a calm and balanced mind. Beyond that, not much comfort is on offer, but despite the sadness, the poem is very beautiful, and its power largely comes from the way in which sound and meaning flow together through each stanza. Dellius seems to be a rich landowner, and Horace labours the point that there are things that money can’t buy.

The three sisters are the fates, the threads they spin are the destinies of men, Inachus was a legendary king, shaking pebbles in an urn until one popped out was an ancient method of drawing lots and the mariner who sails the boat to everlasting exile is Charon, who ferries dead souls across the River Styx to Hades.

Metre: Alcaic

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Aequam memento rebus in arduis
servare mentem, non secus in bonis
ab insolenti temperatam
laetitia, moriture Delli,

seu maestus omni tempore vixeris
seu te in remoto gramine per dies
festos reclinatum bearis
interiore nota Falerni.

quo pinus ingens albaque populus
umbram hospitalem consociare amant
ramis? quid obliquo laborat
lympha fugax trepidare rivo?

huc vina et unguenta et nimium breves
flores amoenae ferre iube rosae,
dum res et aetas et sororum
fila trium patiuntur atra.

cedes coemptis saltibus et domo
villaque, flavus quam Tiberis lavit,
cedes, et exstructis in altum
divitiis potietur heres.

divesne prisco natus ab Inacho
nil interest an pauper et infima
de gente sub divo moreris,
victima nil miserantis Orci.

omnes eodem cogimur, omnium
versatur urna serius ocius
sors exitura et nos in aeternum
exilium impositura cumbae.

Remember, keep your state of mind in balance when the going in life gets steep, and hold it back from excessive happiness when things are going well, Dellius, doomed to die,

whether you have lived in sadness for the whole of your time, or whether, reclining through one day of celebration after another on a secluded lawn, you have been blessed with some fine vintage of Falernian from the inner cellar.

Why do the massive pine and the white poplar love to give hospitable shade together from their branches? For what does the fleeing stream strive and bustle its way down its winding bed?

Call for wine, and unguents, and the all-too-brief flowers of the lovely rose, while means and age – and the black thread of the three sisters – allow.

You will leave the farms that you have bought, and your house and your villa by which the yellow Tiber flows, you will leave, and the riches that you have piled so high your heir will take possession of.

Whether you are rich and descended from ancient Inachus, or a pauper of the lowest family and have eked out life with no roof over your head, makes no difference, you victim of pitiless Hades.

The same force drives us all, we all have our lot which is being shaken in the urn and will, sooner or later come out and put us on the boat for everlasting exile.

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More Poems by Horace

  1. A divine inspiration
  2. The country is best
  3. Diffugere nives
  4. Horace’s limitations
  5. Roman values for the new age
  6. Pyrrha
  7. Fortuna
  8. Horace returns to lyric poetry
  9. A garland from the Muses
  10. Courage and decadence: the Regulus ode
  11. Celebrating Neptune’s feast day
  12. A change of mind
  13. Give me comfort, not riches
  14. Stormy seas
  15. Lovely mother, lovelier daughter
  16. A Farewell to arms
  17. Numida’s back
  18. The fleeting years slip by
  19. Pindar and Augustus
  20. Here’s to Murena!
  21. The consolations of wine
  22. The tug-of-war for Nearchus
  23. New temples, new morals
  24. Horace’s reverence to Bacchus
  25. Rome: disaster and salvation
  26. Horace’s prayer to a wine-jar
  27. The lust for money versus the simple life
  28. Tibur or Tarentum: a poet’s dilemma?
  29. Horace’s first Ode
  30. Augustus, master of the world
  31. Europa’s lament
  32. Relief from care
  33. Neobule
  34. Late stirrings
  35. A plea for burial
  36. An oath to Maecenas
  37. Unrequited love
  38. Diana and Apollo: a hymn
  39. Licymnia
  40. Horace welcomes his army comrade
  41. Carpe diem, Sestius
  42. Valgius and Mystes
  43. A Prayer to the poetry-God
  44. The Golden Mean
  45. A dedication to Diana
  46. Horace’s wine
  47. Postumus, the years slip by
  48. The pleasures and dangers of wine
  49. An invocation to the lyre
  50. What Roman youth should be
  51. Horace rests from his labours
  52. Caesar’s safe return
  53. Love a slave-girl? Oh, Xanthias!
  54. Nereus prophesies the Trojan War
  55. A prayer to Faunus
  56. A day off for rain
  57. Gyges’s constancy
  58. Don’t trust Barine
  59. Horace the peacemaker
  60. Romulus in Heaven
  61. O Fons Bandusiae
  62. Wealth should be used, not hoarded
  63. Mourning for a good man
  64. Glycera
  65. Locked out
  66. Pollio’s histories of civil war
  67. Awe for the Gods
  68. Horace’s Chloe
  69. Curse you, tree!
  70. An invitation to Maecenas
  71. Leave the cares of state, Maecenas
  72. Horace’s monument
  73. Love lost and found
  74. Gathering rosebuds: carpe diem
  75. Romulus becomes a God
  76. Housman and Horace
  77. Horace, the wolf and the upright life
  78. A prayer to Mercury
  79. Luxury versus the simple life
  80. A prayer to Venus
  81. Poscimur
  82. Jealousy
  83. Lalage is too young
  84. The final ode
  85. Iccius goes soldiering
  86. A country sacrifice
  87. Soracte
  88. Lydia’s tragedy
  89. Last love
  90. Jupiter’s authority, and Caesar’s
  91. A call for a moral renaissance
  92. Be your age, Chloris!
  93. Horace the swan
  94. Don’t worry, be happy
  95. Horace’s Cleopatra ode
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