Odes 2.3

Some advice for Dellius

by Horace

In this poem, Horace pitches the conventional theme of “carpe diem” very much in terms of Epicurean philosophy – living the good life means maintaining a calm and balanced mind. Beyond that, not much comfort is on offer, but despite the sadness, the poem is very beautiful, and its power largely comes from the way in which sound and meaning flow together through each stanza. Dellius seems to be a rich landowner, and Horace labours the point that there are things that money can’t buy.

The three sisters are the fates, the threads they spin are the destinies of men, Inachus was a legendary king, shaking pebbles in an urn until one popped out was an ancient method of drawing lots and the mariner who sails the boat to everlasting exile is Charon, who ferries dead souls across the River Styx to Hades.

Metre: Alcaic

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Aequam memento rebus in arduis
servare mentem, non secus in bonis
ab insolenti temperatam
laetitia, moriture Delli,

seu maestus omni tempore vixeris
seu te in remoto gramine per dies
festos reclinatum bearis
interiore nota Falerni.

quo pinus ingens albaque populus
umbram hospitalem consociare amant
ramis? quid obliquo laborat
lympha fugax trepidare rivo?

huc vina et unguenta et nimium breves
flores amoenae ferre iube rosae,
dum res et aetas et sororum
fila trium patiuntur atra.

cedes coemptis saltibus et domo
villaque, flavus quam Tiberis lavit,
cedes, et exstructis in altum
divitiis potietur heres.

divesne prisco natus ab Inacho
nil interest an pauper et infima
de gente sub divo moreris,
victima nil miserantis Orci.

omnes eodem cogimur, omnium
versatur urna serius ocius
sors exitura et nos in aeternum
exilium impositura cumbae.

Remember, keep your state of mind in balance when the going in life gets steep, and hold it back from excessive happiness when things are going well, Dellius, doomed to die,

whether you have lived in sadness for the whole of your time, or whether, reclining through one day of celebration after another on a secluded lawn, you have been blessed with some fine vintage of Falernian from the inner cellar.

Why do the massive pine and the white poplar love to give hospitable shade together from their branches? For what does the fleeing stream strive and bustle its way down its winding bed?

Call for wine, and unguents, and the all-too-brief flowers of the lovely rose, while means and age – and the black thread of the three sisters – allow.

You will leave the farms that you have bought, and your house and your villa by which the yellow Tiber flows, you will leave, and the riches that you have piled so high your heir will take possession of.

Whether you are rich and descended from ancient Inachus, or a pauper of the lowest family and have eked out life with no roof over your head, makes no difference, you victim of pitiless Hades.

The same force drives us all, we all have our lot which is being shaken in the urn and will, sooner or later come out and put us on the boat for everlasting exile.

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More Poems by Horace

  1. New temples, new morals
  2. The fleeting years slip by
  3. Don’t trust Barine
  4. Tibur or Tarentum: a poet’s dilemma?
  5. An invitation to Maecenas
  6. Romulus becomes a God
  7. A change of mind
  8. Neobule
  9. Stormy seas
  10. Rome: disaster and salvation
  11. Horace returns to lyric poetry
  12. The country is best
  13. Valgius and Mystes
  14. A Prayer to the poetry-God
  15. Licymnia
  16. Glycera
  17. Don’t worry, be happy
  18. Horace’s Cleopatra ode
  19. Jealousy
  20. Postumus, the years slip by
  21. Romulus in Heaven
  22. Horace rests from his labours
  23. Jupiter’s authority, and Caesar’s
  24. Horace the swan
  25. O Fons Bandusiae
  26. Poscimur
  27. Lovely mother, lovelier daughter
  28. The pleasures and dangers of wine
  29. Pyrrha
  30. Horace welcomes his army comrade
  31. The consolations of wine
  32. Curse you, tree!
  33. Awe for the Gods
  34. Love a slave-girl? Oh, Xanthias!
  35. Horace’s reverence to Bacchus
  36. Gathering rosebuds: carpe diem
  37. Lydia’s tragedy
  38. Horace’s prayer to a wine-jar
  39. Pollio’s histories of civil war
  40. An oath to Maecenas
  41. Give me comfort, not riches
  42. Fortuna
  43. Augustus, master of the world
  44. What Roman youth should be
  45. Celebrating Neptune’s feast day
  46. Locked out
  47. Love lost and found
  48. The final ode
  49. The tug-of-war for Nearchus
  50. Unrequited love
  51. A prayer to Mercury
  52. Horace the peacemaker
  53. Diana and Apollo: a hymn
  54. Last love
  55. Nereus prophesies the Trojan War
  56. Pindar and Augustus
  57. Here’s to Murena!
  58. A garland from the Muses
  59. Carpe diem, Sestius
  60. Horace’s limitations
  61. A prayer to Venus
  62. Gyges’s constancy
  63. Numida’s back
  64. Iccius goes soldiering
  65. Relief from care
  66. A plea for burial
  67. Horace’s monument
  68. Diffugere nives
  69. Luxury versus the simple life
  70. Roman values for the new age
  71. Horace, the wolf and the upright life
  72. Mourning for a good man
  73. Housman and Horace
  74. Wealth should be used, not hoarded
  75. Courage and decadence: the Regulus ode
  76. Lalage is too young
  77. Horace’s Chloe
  78. Horace’s wine
  79. Horace’s first Ode
  80. A Farewell to arms
  81. The Golden Mean
  82. Soracte
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