Odes 2.3

Some advice for Dellius

by Horace

In this poem, Horace pitches the conventional theme of “carpe diem” very much in terms of Epicurean philosophy – living the good life means maintaining a calm and balanced mind. Beyond that, not much comfort is on offer, but despite the sadness, the poem is very beautiful, and its power largely comes from the way in which sound and meaning flow together through each stanza. Dellius seems to be a rich landowner, and Horace labours the point that there are things that money can’t buy.

The three sisters are the fates, the threads they spin are the destinies of men, Inachus was a legendary king, shaking pebbles in an urn until one popped out was an ancient method of drawing lots and the mariner who sails the boat to everlasting exile is Charon, who ferries dead souls across the River Styx to Hades.

Metre: Alcaic

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Aequam memento rebus in arduis
servare mentem, non secus in bonis
ab insolenti temperatam
laetitia, moriture Delli,

seu maestus omni tempore vixeris
seu te in remoto gramine per dies
festos reclinatum bearis
interiore nota Falerni.

quo pinus ingens albaque populus
umbram hospitalem consociare amant
ramis? quid obliquo laborat
lympha fugax trepidare rivo?

huc vina et unguenta et nimium breves
flores amoenae ferre iube rosae,
dum res et aetas et sororum
fila trium patiuntur atra.

cedes coemptis saltibus et domo
villaque, flavus quam Tiberis lavit,
cedes, et exstructis in altum
divitiis potietur heres.

divesne prisco natus ab Inacho
nil interest an pauper et infima
de gente sub divo moreris,
victima nil miserantis Orci.

omnes eodem cogimur, omnium
versatur urna serius ocius
sors exitura et nos in aeternum
exilium impositura cumbae.

Remember, keep your state of mind in balance when the going in life gets steep, and hold it back from excessive happiness when things are going well, Dellius, doomed to die,

whether you have lived in sadness for the whole of your time, or whether, reclining through one day of celebration after another on a secluded lawn, you have been blessed with some fine vintage of Falernian from the inner cellar.

Why do the massive pine and the white poplar love to give hospitable shade together from their branches? For what does the fleeing stream strive and bustle its way down its winding bed?

Call for wine, and unguents, and the all-too-brief flowers of the lovely rose, while means and age – and the black thread of the three sisters – allow.

You will leave the farms that you have bought, and your house and your villa by which the yellow Tiber flows, you will leave, and the riches that you have piled so high your heir will take possession of.

Whether you are rich and descended from ancient Inachus, or a pauper of the lowest family and have eked out life with no roof over your head, makes no difference, you victim of pitiless Hades.

The same force drives us all, we all have our lot which is being shaken in the urn and will, sooner or later come out and put us on the boat for everlasting exile.

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More Poems by Horace

  1. Horace’s wine
  2. Lalage is too young
  3. Diana and Apollo: a hymn
  4. Iccius goes soldiering
  5. A Farewell to arms
  6. Augustus, master of the world
  7. A Prayer to the poetry-God
  8. Gathering rosebuds: carpe diem
  9. Carpe diem, Sestius
  10. Don’t worry, be happy
  11. Licymnia
  12. Soracte
  13. The country is best
  14. Numida’s back
  15. New temples, new morals
  16. Romulus becomes a God
  17. Glycera
  18. A prayer to Mercury
  19. Housman and Horace
  20. Horace the peacemaker
  21. Horace rests from his labours
  22. What Roman youth should be
  23. The Golden Mean
  24. Horace’s prayer to a wine-jar
  25. Horace’s Chloe
  26. Horace’s reverence to Bacchus
  27. Horace’s first Ode
  28. Horace, the wolf and the upright life
  29. Luxury versus the simple life
  30. Love a slave-girl? Oh, Xanthias!
  31. The tug-of-war for Nearchus
  32. Relief from care
  33. Unrequited love
  34. Celebrating Neptune’s feast day
  35. Rome: disaster and salvation
  36. Here’s to Murena!
  37. Pollio’s histories of civil war
  38. The final ode
  39. Curse you, tree!
  40. O Fons Bandusiae
  41. The fleeting years slip by
  42. Stormy seas
  43. Pyrrha
  44. A prayer to Venus
  45. Last love
  46. A plea for burial
  47. An invitation to Maecenas
  48. Tibur or Tarentum: a poet’s dilemma?
  49. Don’t trust Barine
  50. Awe for the Gods
  51. Fortuna
  52. Horace returns to lyric poetry
  53. Postumus, the years slip by
  54. Lovely mother, lovelier daughter
  55. Horace’s monument
  56. An oath to Maecenas
  57. Romulus in Heaven
  58. Locked out
  59. Lydia’s tragedy
  60. Gyges’s constancy
  61. Mourning for a good man
  62. Pindar and Augustus
  63. Valgius and Mystes
  64. Diffugere nives
  65. Jupiter’s authority, and Caesar’s
  66. Roman values for the new age
  67. The pleasures and dangers of wine
  68. Horace welcomes his army comrade
  69. Courage and decadence: the Regulus ode
  70. Neobule
  71. Horace’s Cleopatra ode
  72. Poscimur
  73. Jealousy
  74. Wealth should be used, not hoarded
  75. A change of mind
  76. Nereus prophesies the Trojan War
  77. The consolations of wine
  78. A garland from the Muses
  79. Give me comfort, not riches
  80. Horace’s limitations
  81. Love lost and found
  82. Horace the swan
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